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What does it mean?
Acknowledgment of personal hardening and loss of empathy.
In plain terms
I know what it is to lose kindness.
What can you take from it?
Beware hardening your heart.

Where it applies

  • personal trauma
  • moral decline

Putting it to work

  • practice empathy
  • acknowledge mistakes

Questions to consider

  • How do you protect your heart?
  • Can compassion be recovered?

Another view

Hardening can be a defense mechanism.

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