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What does it mean?
People hide truths to avoid causing pain to themselves or others.
In plain terms
Some things stay unsaid to keep peace.
What can you take from it?
Silence can preserve happiness.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • weigh truth against impact
  • practice tact

Questions to consider

  • Is honesty always best?
  • When is silence kinder?

Another view

Suppressed truth often resurfaces.

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