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What does it mean?
Attempting to dictate others' thoughts is unwise.
In plain terms
Do not try to control what others think.
What can you take from it?
Respect mental freedom.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • parenting
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • encourage open debate
  • listen actively

Questions to consider

  • Where does influence become control?
  • Why do we want control?

Another view

Some influence is necessary for safety.

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