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What does it mean?
Separation makes former partners strangers because their lives diverge while apart.
In plain terms
When we are apart, we change and stop knowing each other.
What can you take from it?
Physical distance can erode emotional bonds.

Where it applies

  • breakups
  • long-term distance
  • reuniting after years

Putting it to work

  • maintain connection during absence
  • accept that people change

Questions to consider

  • Can love survive long separation?
  • Do people change when apart?

Another view

Some bonds survive separation without fading.

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