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What does it mean?
Seeing others make mistakes reminds us of our own past missteps, leading to sympathy rather than anger.
In plain terms
When you see kids misbehaving you feel sympathy because you did it too.
What can you take from it?
Your past mistakes make you more empathetic to others' faults.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • management
  • conflict

Putting it to work

  • recall your own faults
  • be kind to wrongdoers

Questions to consider

  • What mistake of yours do you forgive in others?
  • How does your past shape your judgment?

Another view

Sometimes mistakes need firm correction regardless of shared history.

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