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I have to trust everyone and yet there's no one I can really be sure of You can be sure of me she looked at him, searching his face. I've known you so little time. The others I knew all my life. The others are my own people. You are a stranger, from a strange time and place. I know what they can do, what they will do. I have no idea of what you are or what is in your hands and heart and mind. And yet when you tell me I can be sure of you, I am sure

Orson Scott Card#582

TrustConnectionFaithUncertaintyIntuitionStrangers

About this quote

What does it mean?
Despite knowing strangers better, a person feels an immediate trust in someone from another time or place.
In plain terms
I know everyone else better but I still trust you completely.
What can you take from it?
Trust can bypass logic and familiarity.

Where it applies

  • first meetings
  • strategic alliances
  • crisis situations

Putting it to work

  • building trust quickly
  • evaluating risk

Questions to consider

  • When do we trust strangers?
  • Is trust a feeling or a choice?

Another view

Trusting strangers can lead to vulnerability and betrayal.

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