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About this quote

What does it mean?
Viewing our lives from an outside perspective could help us fix mistakes before they happen.
In plain terms
If we could see ourselves clearly, we could stop hurting others.
What can you take from it?
Step back from your actions to see how they affect others.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth
  • ethical decisions

Putting it to work

  • pause before acting
  • ask for feedback

Questions to consider

  • What would you see if you watched yourself?
  • How often do you act without thinking?

Another view

True objectivity is nearly impossible for humans due to inherent bias.

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