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What does it mean?
Wishing for things that cannot change prevents you from accepting reality and moving forward.
In plain terms
Stop wishing and start accepting what you cannot change.
What can you take from it?
Accept reality instead of dwelling on what you want.

Where it applies

  • dealing with loss
  • unmet goals
  • personal reflection

Putting it to work

  • focus on action
  • practice gratitude
  • let go

Questions to consider

  • What do you wish you could change?
  • Does wishing help you feel better?

Another view

Sometimes hoping is necessary to inspire change.

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