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What does it mean?
Sometimes we understand someone else's feelings better than they understand themselves.
In plain terms
You can see someone's love before they realize it.
What can you take from it?
Trust your insight into others' emotions.

Where it applies

  • romantic situations
  • friendship
  • counseling

Putting it to work

  • trust your instincts
  • observe behavior
  • ask gently

Questions to consider

  • Have you ever read someone wrong?
  • How do you know someone loves you?

Another view

This assumes the observer is always right.

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