What I am seeing right now is a man who is so dominated by his mother that he is willing to throw away his marriage in order to protect her from the trauma of growing up and acting like an adult. So please do keep on shielding her from any chance of ever becoming a mature, productive, empathic human being... I knew that was a facet of your life when I married you. But don't you dare to accuse me of being envious of the sickness that you call motherlove.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Protecting a parent from the realities of life prevents them from maturing and living fully.
- In plain terms
- Shielding someone from responsibility stops them from growing up.
- What can you take from it?
- Let parents face consequences to become mature.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Are you enabling someone?
- How do you encourage growth?
Another view
Some parents may always need protection.
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