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What does it mean?
The speaker expects someone to remain loyal and adaptable to her wishes as they have in the past.
In plain terms
She believes he will continue to bend to her will as he always has.
What can you take from it?
Expectations of loyalty can be based on past patterns.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • conflict
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • observe past behavior
  • communicate expectations

Questions to consider

  • Do you expect others to accommodate you?
  • Is this dynamic healthy?

Another view

Assuming someone will always bend to your will can lead to disappointment.

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