I hoped for your company. For many conversations' she thought about it, but in the end she shook her head. 'It would be too:hard for me. This is too hard for me. Seeing you brings back another life. A time when I was another person maybe now and then. Every few years
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Avoiding contact to preserve emotional stability.
- In plain terms
- She declines company because it reminds her of the past.
- What can you take from it?
- Past selves can make present interactions painful.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What memories do you avoid?
- Who reminds you of the past?
Another view
Avoidance may prevent closure.
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