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What does it mean?
A person struggles with conflicting desires, wanting things they do not want to want, and questioning why they should not have what they want.
In plain terms
I want things I do not want to want.
What can you take from it?
Internal conflict arises when desires clash with values.

Where it applies

  • moral dilemmas
  • addiction
  • unwanted attractions

Putting it to work

  • examining true desires
  • accepting inner conflict

Questions to consider

  • Why do we want what we reject?
  • Can you stop yourself from wanting?

Another view

The quote is abstract and may not apply to everyone's specific struggles.

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