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What does it mean?
A child growing up wonders if adulthood will demand more of him than childhood already did, hoping it will not.
In plain terms
He hopes adulthood does not require more of him than childhood did.
What can you take from it?
Children fear growing up means more pressure.

Where it applies

  • coming of age
  • facing adulthood
  • parenting expectations

Putting it to work

  • reassuring children about growth
  • setting realistic expectations

Questions to consider

  • Is adulthood harder than childhood?
  • What do we lose growing up?

Another view

The assumption that adulthood is strictly more demanding ignores its benefits.

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