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What does it mean?
Adults lose the ability to remember childhood experiences.
In plain terms
Grown-ups forget what it feels like to be young.
What can you take from it?
Childhood memories fade as adults age.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • education
  • intergenerational conflict

Putting it to work

  • remember your childhood
  • listen to kids
  • avoid condescension

Questions to consider

  • What do you remember about being five?
  • How does this affect your parenting?

Another view

Adults may know more than they remember about being a child.

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