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What does it mean?
It questions self-perception based on how others see the speaker.
In plain terms
Others say I am not what I seem.
What can you take from it?
Identity is shaped by others.

Where it applies

  • interactions
  • identity crisis

Putting it to work

  • questioning self-image

Questions to consider

  • Do I seem who I am?
  • Who knows me best?

Another view

It assumes others' views are accurate.

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