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What does it mean?
The speaker normalizes youth loneliness, suggesting it is a common experience rather than unique.
In plain terms
Young men are usually lonely, so you are not special for feeling that way.
What can you take from it?
Loneliness in youth is common and not unique to one person.

Where it applies

  • comforting someone
  • reflecting on youth

Putting it to work

  • reducing stigma
  • understanding youth experience

Questions to consider

  • Is your loneliness unique?
  • How do you handle youth?

Another view

It dismisses individual pain by calling it common.

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