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It was the first time he had actually enjoyed the company of a woman as a woman. It was possible. That's what this evening meant. There was hope for him to find someone. There really were interesting women out there and there were even some who might find him interesting, not for his money, but for his conversation, his company. He refused to be disappointed that this particular encounter hadn't lead anywhere.

Orson Scott Card#937

ConnectionHopeSelf worthDating

About this quote

What does it mean?
A man finds hope in connecting with a woman for who reasons beyond money.
In plain terms
He realized he could be liked for who he is.
What can you take from it?
Authentic connection offers hope for the future.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • social interaction

Putting it to work

  • focus on conversation over status

Questions to consider

  • What makes you feel valued by others?

Another view

It assumes money is a primary barrier to connection.

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