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What does it mean?
The speaker validates another man's ongoing feeling of marriage despite past changes.
In plain terms
It is good you still feel married unlike men who don't.
What can you take from it?
Feeling married matters more than legal status.

Where it applies

  • divorce
  • remarriage
  • long-term relationships

Putting it to work

  • validate feelings
  • acknowledge commitment
  • reflect on loyalty

Questions to consider

  • Can you feel married without a license?
  • Is feeling married enough?

Another view

Legal marriage may not reflect emotional reality.

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