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About this quote

What does it mean?
Someone who has experienced ideal love may struggle to accept anything less.
In plain terms
Perfect love makes settling hard.
What can you take from it?
Ideal standards can block future connections.

Where it applies

  • post-breakup
  • dating
  • grieving a partner

Putting it to work

  • reflect on idealization
  • accept imperfection

Questions to consider

  • What does perfect love look like to you?
  • Can you recognize good enough?

Another view

Some people find new love even after ideal experiences.

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