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What does it mean?
People are dangerous regardless of love or hate if love is used not felt.
In plain terms
Dangerous people are risky whether they love or hate you.
What can you take from it?
Love used as a tool is dangerous.

Where it applies

  • abusive relationships
  • betrayal
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • check motives
  • value authenticity
  • set boundaries

Questions to consider

  • When does love become dangerous?
  • Is being used worse than being hated?

Another view

Not all dangerous people are aware of their danger.

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