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What does it mean?
True love arises from vulnerability and focusing on the other person rather than managing their reactions.
In plain terms
Love happens when you stop manipulating and start being open and vulnerable.
What can you take from it?
Embrace vulnerability and selflessness to find love.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • practice vulnerability
  • focus on others

Questions to consider

  • Are you afraid to be vulnerable?
  • How do you show love?

Another view

Vulnerability without boundaries can sometimes lead to being taken advantage of.

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