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What does it mean?
You can only find love when you allow yourself vulnerability without demanding power.
In plain terms
Love appears when you show weakness without seeking strength.
What can you take from it?
Be open and modest to attract love.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • friendship building

Putting it to work

  • share feelings honestly
  • avoid power games

Questions to consider

  • What does vulnerability cost you?
  • How can you protect yourself while being open?

Another view

Vulnerability can be exploited by those seeking control.

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