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What does it mean?
Control through fear is ugly; true influence changes desires without force.
In plain terms
Fear is a bad way to make people obey.
What can you take from it?
Influence by changing hearts, not by force.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • parenting
  • governance

Putting it to work

  • build trust
  • align interests

Questions to consider

  • How do you lead others?
  • Is fear ever justified?

Another view

Fear works when quick action is needed.

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