There is nothing so stupid or dangerous or painful that people wont eagerly do it, if by doing it they will make others believe that they are better or stronger or more honorable. I've seen people poison themselves, destroy their children, abandon their mates, cut themselves off from the world, all so that others would think that they were a better sort of person.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People harm themselves and others to project a better image to society.
- In plain terms
- People do bad things just to look good to others.
- What can you take from it?
- Ignore how you look; focus on being real.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do you care what others think?
- What cost are you paying for approval?
Another view
Sometimes status is necessary for survival.
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