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What does it mean?
Always maintain how you appear to others regardless of reality.
In plain terms
Keep up a good front no matter what happens.
What can you take from it?
Appearances matter regardless of reality.

Where it applies

  • social events
  • professional settings
  • conflict

Putting it to work

  • manage impressions
  • dress appropriately

Questions to consider

  • Is keeping up appearances worth the effort?
  • When is it okay to drop the facade?

Another view

Focusing on looks can neglect real issues.

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