Skip to content
quotesby

About this quote

What does it mean?
The author argues that praising yourself invites distrust, while not praising yourself makes others take your silence as truth.
In plain terms
If you say good things about yourself, people distrust you; if you dont, they believe the worst.
What can you take from it?
Self-description is a lose-lose situation.

Where it applies

  • interviews
  • social interaction
  • networking

Putting it to work

  • maintain humility
  • let actions speak

Questions to consider

  • How do you present yourself honestly?
  • Is humility always the best policy?

Another view

Confidence is sometimes necessary for success.

More from Joseph Roux

  1. Our experience is composed rathery of illusions that of wisdom acquired.

    Permalink to quote #2
  2. The folly which we might have ourselves committed is the one which we are least ready to pardon in another.

    Permalink to quote #4
  3. We call that person who has lost his father, an orphan; and a widower that man who has lost his wife. But that man who has known the immense unhappiness of los…

    Permalink to quote #1

Related quotes

  1. I do not see why I should e'er turn back, Or those should not set forth upon my track To overtake me, who should miss me here And long to know if still I held …

    Robert FrostRobert Frost quote #1
  2. On their own merits modest men are dumb.

    George, the Younger ColmanGeorge, the Younger Colman quote #1
  3. To obtain credibility, an unending series of daily correct actions are necessary. To lose it, one mistake is enough.

    Rolim AmaroRolim Amaro quote #2