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About this quote

What does it mean?
I find my own affairs boring and prefer to involve in others'.
In plain terms
Other people's business is more interesting.
What can you take from it?
Engage with others' projects for variety.

Where it applies

  • networking events
  • collaborative work

Putting it to work

  • joining group activities
  • learning from others

Questions to consider

  • When does focusing on others become avoidance?
  • How to balance personal and external interests?

Another view

Neglecting personal goals can hinder self‑growth.

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  2. We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.

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  3. My experience is that as soon as people are old enough to know better, they don't know anything at all.

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