In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Both not getting what you want and getting it can cause sorrow.
- In plain terms
- Both lack and fulfillment can be painful.
- What can you take from it?
- Consider whether your desire truly brings happiness.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When has achieving a goal made you unhappy?
- Do unmet wishes always cause pain?
Another view
It oversimplifies complex emotional responses.
More from Oscar Wilde
We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
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