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What does it mean?
Mothers support financially without bothering; fathers bother and never pay.
In plain terms
Mothers help; fathers cause trouble and avoid paying.
What can you take from it?
Recognize differing parental roles and responsibilities.

Where it applies

  • family budgeting
  • parental advice

Putting it to work

  • appreciate supportive parents
  • hold all accountable

Questions to consider

  • How do modern families share responsibilities?
  • What expectations are fair for each parent?

Another view

Stereotypical and not universally true.

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