I always like to know everything about my new friends, and nothing about my old ones.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- I prefer to learn everything about new friends and nothing about old ones.
- In plain terms
- I like to discover everything about new friends but ignore the past with old ones.
- What can you take from it?
- Treat new relationships as fresh discoveries, and let long‑standing bonds rest on familiarity.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why might we avoid digging into the past with old friends?
- How does curiosity differ across relationship stages?
Another view
Neglecting history with old friends can erode depth.
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