We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over; so in a series of kindnesses there is at last one which makes the heart run over.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Friendship builds gradually, with a final act of kindness that overflows the heart.
- In plain terms
- A single generous act can complete a friendship.
- What can you take from it?
- Small kindnesses accumulate into deep bonds.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What small acts strengthen bonds?
- Can a friendship form without a defining moment?
Another view
Not all friendships follow this linear model.
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