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What does it mean?
Children start by loving their parents, later judge them, and may eventually forgive them.
In plain terms
Love for parents can turn into judgment, then forgiveness.
What can you take from it?
Recognize that relationships evolve over time.

Where it applies

  • parent-child conflict
  • adult reflection
  • reconciliation

Putting it to work

  • open dialogue
  • empathic listening

Questions to consider

  • What have you forgiven in your family?
  • How does judgment affect love?

Another view

Not all parent-child relationships end in forgiveness.

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