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What does it mean?
People attend events to be seen themselves, not just to see others.
In plain terms
People go places to be noticed.
What can you take from it?
Social events often serve vanity.

Where it applies

  • parties
  • galas
  • public gatherings

Putting it to work

  • Observe underlying motivations
  • Avoid seeking validation

Questions to consider

  • Why do I attend social events?
  • What am I seeking recognition for?

Another view

Some people genuinely care about the event or cause.

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