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What does it mean?
People often desire what they cannot have and reject what is readily available.
In plain terms
We want what is out of reach and ignore what we have.
What can you take from it?
Desire is often directed at the unavailable.

Where it applies

  • shopping
  • dating
  • career choices

Putting it to work

  • value what you have
  • assess needs versus wants

Questions to consider

  • Why do you want what you can't have?
  • Are you ignoring available options?

Another view

Sometimes unavailable things are genuinely better.

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