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What does it mean?
Women feel validated simply by being asked, regardless of the outcome.
In plain terms
Being asked feels good whether the answer is yes or no.
What can you take from it?
Make requests to show value, not just to get results.

Where it applies

  • asking for help
  • dating
  • negotiations

Putting it to work

  • ask questions freely
  • appreciate the ask

Questions to consider

  • Does being asked matter more than getting?
  • How do you value requests?

Another view

Some people may feel pressured just by being asked.

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