Praise out of season, or tactlessly bestowed, can freeze the heart as much as blame.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Praising someone at the wrong time or in the wrong way can hurt as much as criticism.
- In plain terms
- Badly timed praise can hurt feelings like blame does.
- What can you take from it?
- Be careful when and how you give praise.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Have you ever felt hurt by praise?
- When is praise most effective?
Another view
Not everyone feels hurt by poorly timed praise.
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