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What does it mean?
The speaker claims to be supportive yet also wants to reprimand the listener.
In plain terms
I'm on your side, but I need to scold you.
What can you take from it?
Constructive criticism can come from allies.

Where it applies

  • team feedback
  • family advice

Putting it to work

  • give honest feedback
  • maintain respect

Questions to consider

  • How to give criticism without harming trust?
  • When is it appropriate to confront?

Another view

Mixing support with reprimand can cause confusion.

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  2. So many lies. Are taking hold. It's not your fault. There's many scars. ~ 'On Your Side'

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  3. I'm wide awake, I'll drop you off for saying that, For days and two weeks, It was you who was defending such a lie, Oh what a lie, Was it a lie? ~ 'Sense'

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