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What does it mean?
Children often believe their actions only have reality if observed by authority figures like parents.
In plain terms
Kids think what they do is real only if their parents see it.
What can you take from it?
Validation from others shapes our sense of reality.

Where it applies

  • raising children
  • privacy discussions
  • self-regulation

Putting it to work

  • monitor behavior gently
  • encourage independence
  • discuss privacy

Questions to consider

  • How do you know you are real?
  • Does being watched change your actions?

Another view

It simplifies complex child psychology to a single condition.

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