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What does it mean?
Suggests wise rulers should avoid direct contact and instead use trusted mediators to manage relations.
In plain terms
Princes should send wise agents to each other instead of meeting directly.
What can you take from it?
Delegates often solve conflicts better than leaders themselves.

Where it applies

  • resolving political disputes
  • negotiating treaties
  • managing alliances

Putting it to work

  • hire a diplomat
  • listen to advisors
  • avoid ego clashes

Questions to consider

  • When is indirect communication better?
  • Who do you trust to speak for you?

Another view

Direct contact can sometimes be necessary for building personal trust.

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