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What does it mean?
Ronsard suggests that loving or not loving both lead to suffering.
In plain terms
Both loving and not loving make you miserable.
What can you take from it?
Love brings risk but also meaning.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • heartbreak
  • emotional choice

Putting it to work

  • accepting vulnerability
  • choosing love
  • dealing with pain

Questions to consider

  • Is pain worth love?
  • How do we handle heartbreak?

Another view

Not loving might avoid pain but also joy.

More from Pierre de Ronsard

  1. Sorrow is always a companion of pleasure.

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  2. Youth is our real treasure; all the rest of our years are winter.

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  3. Love and flowers do not last but one spring.

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