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What does it mean?
It observes that people often focus on themselves even when others are speaking.
In plain terms
People talk about themselves too much.
What can you take from it?
Self-centeredness limits true communication.

Where it applies

  • conversations
  • relationships
  • teamwork

Putting it to work

  • listen more
  • reduce self-focus

Questions to consider

  • How often do you listen?
  • Are you too self-centered?

Another view

It generalizes behavior that varies by culture.

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