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What does it mean?
Things often seem more desirable when we do not yet own them.
In plain terms
We enjoy wanting things more than we enjoy having them.
What can you take from it?
Desire is often stronger than possession.

Where it applies

  • shopping
  • pursuing goals
  • comparing lives

Putting it to work

  • appreciate what you have
  • recognize chasing vs having
  • value pursuit

Questions to consider

  • Do you value wanting or having?
  • What lost charm after you got it?

Another view

Some objects do retain their charm after acquisition.

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