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What does it mean?
Maintain a degree of caution in friendships to protect yourself from potential betrayal.
In plain terms
Be careful with friends because they might turn against you.
What can you take from it?
Keep boundaries even with close friends.

Where it applies

  • close relationships
  • business partnerships
  • political alliances

Putting it to work

  • set personal boundaries
  • verify commitments

Questions to consider

  • How do you balance trust and caution?
  • When has a friend disappointed you?

Another view

Constant suspicion can damage genuine trust and intimacy.

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