The time comes for everyone to do deliberately what he used to do by mistake... If you are effeminate by nature, you have to find some way of telling the world that you know you are, otherwise they keep telling you.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Crisp argues that people should consciously embrace traits they once had by accident to control how they are perceived.
- In plain terms
- Intentionally own your traits so others can't define you.
- What can you take from it?
- Owning your traits controls others' perceptions.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you express your true self?
- What traits have you owned?
Another view
It ignores systemic barriers to self-expression.
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