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What does it mean?
Crisp argues that people should consciously embrace traits they once had by accident to control how they are perceived.
In plain terms
Intentionally own your traits so others can't define you.
What can you take from it?
Owning your traits controls others' perceptions.

Where it applies

  • Expressing identity
  • Dealing with assumptions
  • Self-presentation

Putting it to work

  • Own your traits
  • Shape your public image

Questions to consider

  • How do you express your true self?
  • What traits have you owned?

Another view

It ignores systemic barriers to self-expression.

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