When asked, 'Should I tell my mother I'm gay?' I answer, 'Never tell your mother anything.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Crisp advises against telling your mother you’re gay, suggesting secrecy protects relationships.
- In plain terms
- He says never tell your mother anything, including being gay.
- What can you take from it?
- Sometimes secrecy keeps peace.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is secrecy always better?
- When is truth worth the risk?
Another view
The advice is too absolute and ignores supportive families.
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