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What does it mean?
Crisp admits dropping youthful pretensions to avoid middle-aged ones, but it took time to stop pretending to know plays.
In plain terms
He stopped acting cultured as a young man but took years to stop faking knowledge as an older man.
What can you take from it?
Maturity means admitting what you don’t know.

Where it applies

  • theater
  • social events
  • self-image

Putting it to work

  • drop affectations
  • embrace honesty

Questions to consider

  • When did you stop pretending?
  • Is faking knowledge common?

Another view

It assumes declining invitations shows maturity, which is narrow.

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