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Things in which we do not take joy are either a burden upon our minds to be got rid of at any cost; or they are useful, and therefore in temporary and partial relation to us, becoming burdensome when their utility is lost; or they are like wandering vagabonds, loitering for a moment on the outskirts of our recognition, and then passing on. A thing is only completely our own when it is a thing of joy to us.

Rabindranath Tagore#155

PurposeHappinessOwnershipUtilityAttachmentBelongingBurden

About this quote

What does it mean?
Things are only truly ours when they bring us joy; otherwise they are burdens or temporary tools.
In plain terms
Something belongs to you completely only if it brings you joy.
What can you take from it?
Joy is the true measure of ownership.

Where it applies

  • decluttering possessions
  • evaluating commitments

Putting it to work

  • keep what brings joy
  • release what does not

Questions to consider

  • What do you own that brings no joy?
  • Where do you feel burdened by obligation?

Another view

Some responsibilities are necessary even without joy.

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