In love, at one of its poles you find the personal, and at the other the impersonal. At one you have the positive assertion - Here I am; at the other the equally strong denial - I am not. Without this ego what is love? And again, with only this ego how can love be possible? Bondage and liberation are not antagonistic in love. For love is most free and at the same time most bound. If God were absolutely free there would be no creation. The infinite being has assumed unto himself the mystery of finitude. And in him who is love the finite and the infinite are made one.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love balances personal assertion with selflessness, binding freedom and necessity.
- In plain terms
- Love needs both ego and selflessness to exist freely.
- What can you take from it?
- True love merges self with others without losing freedom.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can love exist without ego?
- How do you balance freedom and bond?
Another view
It idealizes love without addressing toxicity or imbalance.
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