In love, at one of its poles you find the personal, at the other the impersonal. At one you have the positive assertion- Here I am; at the other the equally strong denial- I am not. Without this ego what is love? And again, with only this ego how can love be possible?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love contains both personal assertion and impersonal denial. Without ego love has no self, but with only ego love is impossible.
- In plain terms
- Love needs both your presence and your ability to step back.
- What can you take from it?
- Balance your sense of self with openness to others in love.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Where do you assert yourself in love?
- Where do you let go?
Another view
Balancing ego and selflessness is difficult and varies by culture or person.
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